The process of healing and recovering from narcissistic abuse is difficult for anyone, myself included. Ever since I began, I’ve taken a partly spiritual approach to this. And spiritual, to me, has nothing of religion in it, but rather finding various philosophical ways to look at this.

One thing is for sure; the answers are always within us.

At least, that’s what I believe. I really and strongly believe that we can find all we need inside ourselves. We just need to find the path that works for us, and that differs from one person to the next. After all, we are individuals.

As a middle aged woman, I have an at least fairly good idea of who I am. I am complex, more so than most, I am either or, I am two sides of one coin in basically everything that I am, or what interests me. I believe in spirituality, and I am highly sceptical at the same time. I am rational, yet I have been ruled completely by my emotions. I am creative, yet extremely impractical.

Aside from, now creating content on Youtube, I am very interested in photography (I photograph, and I theorize), dog psychology (behaviour/communication), sewing (I make all my clothes), writing, photo editing, blogging, tv series, friends – like any person next doors.

I live in Sweden, and I share my life with a black German Shepherd male named Boyo, and a black house cat named Molly. They are my closest family.

I consider my Youtube channel (starting up in January 2022) and this blog as part of my healing and recovery process.

Welcome – I welcome you to join me, so we can share experiences and learn from each other as we go.

I’ll see you on Youtube and on the blog! 🙂

With love,
Malinka Persson

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Eye C : I grew up with a covert narcissist. This is how I recover.

It’s so easy to identify with being the victim of narcissistic abuse. This is not the place to do that.


It’s important to me to create a space where we can grow, expand and flourish.


I invite you to come along on this journey where we focus on positive instead of negative, on recovery rather than survival. These distinctions are incredibly important if we want to become those people we were supposed to be.


Welcome to join our efforts in the recovery and healing process.