If you’re not into BDSM and Femdom (Female domination) yourself, it is my strong belief that there are many, many misconceptions, prejudices et cetera, on what it actually is.

The stereotype of a dominant woman is she’s either lesbian and very butch, or she’s a Dominatrix, thus clad in leather and/or latex, stiletto heels, wears a strap-on and carries a whip.

While there are of course dominant women who do exactly that, there are many who don’t. Most dominant women are just regular people with desires that reach beyond the vanilla realm.

There is also, I believe, the misconception that a dominant woman is so for the pleasure of any submissive man. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Another thing I believe many people think, rather than actually know, is that BDSM, regardless of what you’re into, is about sex.

While, of course, sex is a large part of the BDSM world, it most certainly is not the only thing that matters. Many people have desires and needs not connected to sex at all, or can be played on with sexual means, but is not the main goal or end game.

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This is Tone. She was born and named Thomas. Last summer, she came out as a transwoman, and chose the name Tone for herself.

Since then, we meet regularily to document her transition through photography.

I can’t even begin to tell you how exciting it is to see the changes that keep happening. It’s amazing.

These are photographs from the journey we’ve done together, so far. We met the first time on July 26, 2022. Tone was more man than woman back then.

Today, it’s hard to believe she’s the same person I met last year. I think of Thomas as a twin brother who has passed away. Especially since I’ve only known Tone as Tone.

I hope this project keeps going for a really long time.

I post new photographs of Tone at one of my swedish blogs (can be translated into numerous languages).


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there is poetry, rythm and music within the photograph.


step into my world for a while, and experience it with me.


due to mental illness, i am retired from work. i do have a background as a portrait/wedding photographer, as well as one in art history.


i am heavily influenced by photographers active in the 19th century, as well as more modern ones. but mainly, i have my own way of seeing the world.