mindset

Post chemo

Published 2023-03-27

It’s been a while. I’ve been superbusy dealing with the whole boob business that I wrote about, back in October. The surgery went well – they removed the entire tumour and one tiny extra cancer… Continue reading →

Posted in My story | Tagged mindset, my mother, personal growth

Me an my boobs

Published 2022-10-12

Why such a topic, one might wonder!? Yes, I’d wonder too. With, of course, the difference that I know exactly why I chose such a headline for this post. I bring up my boobs, because… Continue reading →

Posted in Mindsets | Tagged mindset, my mother, my story, opposites

The adult child

Published 2022-03-05

This is a follow-up post on the Youtube video with the same name – the adult child. I doubt that I’m the only one thinking in these terms when it comes to narcissists – but… Continue reading →

Posted in Youtube | Tagged mindset, my mother, parents, the adult child, victimhood

I grew up with a covert narcissistic mother and a father who overcompensated in a rigid manner.

My mother died back in 2001 and I have spent too many years being a survivor. This is where it’s time to recover and be the best version of myself that I can be.

It’s important to me to let this be a space where we are creative and positive in our ways to recover from the narcissistic abuse we’ve been subjected to in our childhood. It’s no easy task, but I’ll be damned if I can’t do it.

Until then.

With love.
Malinka P.