opposites

Extreme opposites

Published 2022-04-16

When it comes to how we feel about ourselves, I tend to struggle with the extremes of this. I’ve spent my entire life up til I was about 40 years old (46 now) with loathing… Continue reading →

Posted in Questions | Tagged operating systems, opposites, personal expansion, selfawareness, system of thought

Lesson learned/Best in class

Published 2022-01-29

Sometimes, the lessons we learn best from our parents is not what we think it is. Sometimes, it is the most unflattering, the most un-sexy things that burns deep into our souls and takes on… Continue reading →

Posted in Youtube | Tagged choices, opposites, parents, understanding

Parenting skills

Published 2022-01-15

So, in the Youtube video with the same title, I talk a lot of the child in an adult body that I believe a narcissist (regardless of type) is. This post is going a little… Continue reading →

Posted in Youtube | Tagged opposites, parents

Bipolar

Published 2021-11-26

This is a post about balance. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder type II when I was thirtysix years old. Before then, I think I’ve spent my entire adult life since I was about eighteen… Continue reading →

Posted in My story | Tagged bipolar disorder, opposites, travelling

I grew up with a covert narcissistic mother and a father who overcompensated in a rigid manner.

My mother died back in 2001 and I have spent too many years being a survivor. This is where it’s time to recover and be the best version of myself that I can be.

It’s important to me to let this be a space where we are creative and positive in our ways to recover from the narcissistic abuse we’ve been subjected to in our childhood. It’s no easy task, but I’ll be damned if I can’t do it.

Until then.

With love.
Malinka P.